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✦How to Post a Group Notice in Firestorm✦
Hey there, welcome back to Vanilla Spice! Today we’re diving into how to post a group notice - a super handy skill, especially if you’re a host or DJ. But…
Posted inBasics SecondLife 101
Getting Started in Second Life: A Beginner’s Basic Survival Guide
Whether you're here to explore the world of virtual kink, build a new identity, or just have some fun socializing, your first steps can feel a little overwhelming. This guide will help you get your bearings, avoid common frustrations, and start having fun faster.
Posted inBDSM & SL Series
Safewords in SecondLife
[In] Second Life, that dynamic changes—you don’t have voice, body language, or eye contact to rely on. Typing “red” into local chat might go unnoticed in a fast-paced scene. A whispered message could get buried. And if your partner is emoting paragraphs of roleplay or is distracted, your safe word might not be seen right away.
Posted inBDSM & SL Series
Navigating Trauma in a Second Life BDSM Context
Trauma doesn't stop at the login screen. If someone has a history of abuse, manipulation, or neglect, BDSM interactions—especially those involving domination, humiliation, or control—can unintentionally trigger old wounds. For some, these triggers appear suddenly, in scenes or conversations that seemed safe at first.
Posted inAftercare 101 For Dom/mes For Subs
Aftercare 101: Understanding Overload in BDSM
🔥 When It’s Too Much: Understanding Overload in BDSM BDSM is often described as a dance of intensity—pleasure, pain, power, surrender. But even the most seasoned players can sometimes take…
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Aftercare 101: SubDrop
🌒 Subdrop: Understanding the Emotional Descent After a Scene In the highs and deep intensity of BDSM, few things are as whispered-about yet quietly impactful as subdrop. While subspace feels…
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Aftercare 101: SubSpace
🌌 Subspace: The Sweet Abyss of Surrender In the world of BDSM, there’s a term whispered with reverence and curiosity alike—subspace. For many submissives, it’s a coveted state of being,…
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Aftercare 101: Aftercare for Submissives
đź’— Aftercare for Submissives: Holding Space After Letting Go Submission is a beautiful, powerful gift—an act of trust that leaves the submissive emotionally exposed and often physically drained. Whether the…
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SSCRACK RISK Checklist
đź–¤ BDSM Scene Negotiation & Consent Worksheet Combining the values of SSC & RACK: RISK risk aware, informed and consensual, safe and sane kink play checklist! 🧠1. Personal Information…
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Aftercare 101: Dom/me Drop
đź–¤ Dom/medrop: When the Aftermath Hits the Top In BDSM, the emotional and physical aftermath of a scene is often focused on the submissive. “Subdrop” is widely recognized and supported.…