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✦How to Post a Group Notice in Firestorm✦
Hey there, welcome back to Vanilla Spice! Today we’re diving into how to post a group notice - a super handy skill, especially if you’re a host or DJ. But…
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Safewords in SecondLife
[In] Second Life, that dynamic changes—you don’t have voice, body language, or eye contact to rely on. Typing “red” into local chat might go unnoticed in a fast-paced scene. A whispered message could get buried. And if your partner is emoting paragraphs of roleplay or is distracted, your safe word might not be seen right away.
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Navigating Trauma in a Second Life BDSM Context
Trauma doesn't stop at the login screen. If someone has a history of abuse, manipulation, or neglect, BDSM interactions—especially those involving domination, humiliation, or control—can unintentionally trigger old wounds. For some, these triggers appear suddenly, in scenes or conversations that seemed safe at first.
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Roleplaying in SecondLife
Second Life becomes a playground not just for fantasy, but for growth. You may start out pretending, but many find their most authentic selves somewhere along the way.
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BDSM & SL Series: Stepping Into The Theater of the Mind
Well, while Second Life’s animations can add a fun visual flair to scenes, they often don’t fully capture the intensity, emotions, and deep connections that come with BDSM. Enter theater of the mind—where the real depth of the scene takes place.