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SSCRACK RISK Checklist
đź–¤ BDSM Scene Negotiation & Consent Worksheet Combining the values of SSC & RACK: RISK risk aware, informed and consensual, safe and sane kink play checklist! 🧠1. Personal Information…
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Aftercare 101: Dom/me Drop
đź–¤ Dom/medrop: When the Aftermath Hits the Top In BDSM, the emotional and physical aftermath of a scene is often focused on the submissive. “Subdrop” is widely recognized and supported.…
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Aftercare 101: Dom/me Space
đź‘‘ Dom/mespace: The Mindset of Control, Power, and Presence In BDSM, the mind is just as much a playground as the body. While subspace often gets the spotlight—an altered state…
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Aftercare 101: Aftercare For Dominants
In the world of BDSM, Dominants are often seen as the unshakable anchor—the ones who lead, guide, and hold space for their submissive. But even the strongest hands can tremble…
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BDSM 101: Types of BDSM Play
BDSM is a vast and diverse world — and there’s no “one way” to explore it. Whether you’re drawn to the psychological, the physical, the playful, or the emotional aspects,…
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BDSM 101: Types of BDSM Relationships
1. Dominant/submissive (D/s) A power exchange relationship where one partner (the Dominant) takes on a guiding or controlling role, while the other (the submissive) willingly yields control. This can be…
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BDSM & SL Series: Stepping Into The Theater of the Mind
Well, while Second Life’s animations can add a fun visual flair to scenes, they often don’t fully capture the intensity, emotions, and deep connections that come with BDSM. Enter theater of the mind—where the real depth of the scene takes place.
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BDSM 101: The Fundamentals
BDSM is a wide, nuanced world built on trust, consent, communication, and exploration. Though it often carries misconceptions, at its core, BDSM is about creating intimate, negotiated experiences between partners.…
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BDSM 101: Bound by History – The Evolution of Modern BDSM
BDSM—an acronym encompassing Bondage & Discipline, Dominance & Submission, and Sadism & Masochism—is far from a new phenomenon. While the practices themselves can be traced back to ancient times, the…
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Welcome to VanillaSpice!
What VanillaSpice IS: Vanilla Spice is a safe, inclusive space for those curious about BDSM but seeking a gentle, low-pressure introduction. Think of us as BDSM Lite — vanilla with…